Okay, okay, I stole the title from Henry Fielding’s ‘History of Tom Jones, the Foundling’. A bit too thick a book with old style English to read, but that was one of the favourite books of Thomas Langlois ‘Tom’ Lefroy, the leading character in Becoming Jane, whom I talk about in this post.
Upon looking at the painting of Tom Lefroy in this blog, a friend of mine commented that Tom had a ‘James Dean rebellious look’ in his eyes and countenance. He was indeed, and his rebellion and vivacity had, or at least once, won the heart of Jane Austen. But who was this young man with fair hair and piercing blue eyes?
Most of our knowledge on Tom Lefroy came from the Memoir of Chief Justice Lefroy, written by his son (whose name was also Thomas Lefroy) in 1871. Thomas Langlois Lefroy, the eldest son of Colonel Anthony Peter Lefroy of
The Lefroy family was actually the descendants of the French Huguenots Lefroys that migrated to England in the 16th century (hence the name that sounds French). Tom's family lived in
'For his great success in College, I claim no credit. It was entirely the effect of his own talents and judicious diligence. It must be highly pleasing to you to hear that, within my memory, no young man has left our College with a higher character –None so much respected by all the Fellows.../ Of his conduct in London, however seducing its idleness and its evils, you need not have the slightest doubt. He is, in his religious principles, in his desire of knowledge, and his just ambition, fortified in every way.'
Back in December 1792, Benjamin Langlois also praised Tom as someone who ‘has everything in his temper and character that can conciliate affection. A good heart, a good mind, good sense, and as little to correct in him as I ever saw in one of his age’ (Ray 2006). This is of course a contrasting image of the Tom Lefroy we know in Becoming Jane, so I could either assume that: (1) the movie had a serious discrepancy with the real Tom Lefroy, or (2) Tom Lefroy had another side of him; a side that was not that goody-goody in comparison with the side his uncle and tutors knew about him. And this rather ‘bad’ side of him was the one that attracted Jane Austen. And I tend to go with the second option.
Why do I say that? Let’s go back to Jane’s letter to Cassandra on
'You scold me so much in the nice long letter which I have this moment received from you, that I am almost afraid to tell you how my Irish friend and I behaved. Imagine to yourself everything most profligate and shocking in the way of dancing and sitting down together. I can expose myself however, only once more, because he leaves the country soon after next Friday, on which day we are to have a dance at Ashe after all. He is a very gentlemanlike, good-looking, pleasant young man, I assure you. But as to our having ever met, except at the three last balls, I cannot say much; for he is so excessively laughed at about me at Ashe, that he is ashamed of coming to Steventon, and ran away when we called on Mrs. Lefroy a few days ago.'
And this, also on the same day:
'After I had written the above, we received a visit from Mr. Tom Lefroy and his cousin George. The latter is really very well-behaved now; and as for the other, he has but one fault, which time will, I trust, entirely remove -- it is that his morning coat is a great deal too light. He is a very great admirer of Tom Jones, and therefore wears the same coloured clothes, I imagine, which he did when he was wounded.'
Now, honestly, from Jane’s words, I don’t see this Tom Lefroy (whose younger picture indeed showed a rebellious look) as the goody-goody flawless Tom Lefroy that Benjamin Langlois and Dr. Burrowe praised so much. Okay, I do believe that Tom was a very smart guy, and was truly entitled for the role of Chief Justice of Ireland later in his life. But I also believe that this Tom had another side in him, another ‘rather dark’ facet that allowed him to like the rather rebellious and sensual ‘History of Tom Jones’, a book which he discussed rather in details with Jane Austen.
Okay, enough interpretation on Tom’s character. It is possible that he had the ‘good’ and ‘bad’ sides, and Jane Austen saw, and was interested in, both sides. Sadly to Jane/Tom fans, the romance failed. As Tom came from a poor family with many children, it was important that Tom married well, and the 'mediocre' Jane Austen was definitely out of the question. In mid January 1796, Tom returned to
In December 1797, however, the Lefroys brought ‘a young nephew’ to dinner with the Chute family in Hampshire, at the point when Jane was returning from
Well, that, unless we considered Tom Lefroy’s ‘confession’ to nephew Thomas Edward Preston Lefroy (TEPL). On August 16 1869, TEPL wrote to James Edward Austen-Leigh (JEAL) a letter with the excerpt below:
‘You have already given in a few sentences the chief part of what my late venerable uncle told me. He did not state in what her fascination consisted, but he said in so many words that he was in love with her [Jane], although he qualifies his confession by saying it was boyish love. As this occurred in a friendly and private conversation, I feel some doubt whether I ought to make it public.’ (quoted in Chapman 1949, p. 58)
The letter was a response to JEAL’s letter, asking about the commonly known love history between TEPL’s uncle (Tom Lefroy) and JEAL’s aunt (Jane Austen). Well, Mr. Lefroy, this is a biased opinion, but I say that I should indeed thank you for disclosing the information to JEAL. Very precious information indeed.
Anyway, back to Tom Lefroy’s history. According to Wikipedia, after his failed romance with Jane Austen, Tom married Mary Paul in 1799 and had seven children from her. Being the smart guy he was, he made a successful career in
Tom Lefroy’s career shone like a shooting star. According to Wikipedia, in 1830 he was elected to the House of Commons for the
Thomas Langlois Lefroy died three years later on
Chapman, R. W. 1949, Jane Austen: Facts and Problems, Oxford University Press, reprint from 1948, Oxford.
Radovici, N. 1995, A Youthful Love: Jane Austen and Tom Lefroy?, Merlin Books Devon.
Ray, J. K. 2006, 'The Truth about Jane Austen and Tom Lefroy', Notes and Queries: Oxford Journals, vol. 53, no. 3, pp. 311-314.
Spence, J. 2003, Becoming Jane Austen, Continuum International Publishing Group, London.
Tomalin, C. 2000, Jane Austen: A Life, Penguin Books, London.
Walker, L. R. 2007, 'Jane Austen and Tom Lefroy: Stories', Persuasions On-line, vol. 27, no. 1.
Pic 1: the young Thomas Lefroy, painted by G. Engleheart in 1799, from Tomalin's Jane Austen: A Life (2000 edition, p. 271)
Pic 2: James McAvoy as Tom Lefroy, Britfilms
Pic 3: Jane Austen and Tom Lefroy in Basingstoke Assembly
Pic 4: James McAvoy as Tom Lefroy (Jane Austen's Regency World, March/April 2007)
Pic 5: Chief Justice Thomas Lefroy, painted by W.H. Mote in 1855 (in the Memoir of Chief Justice Lefroy)